Yeeah nikki, that has to be it!
Thank you so much for finding it!
Lets see...
1. Bed - Mesh, Mango Duo -- recolour, reflexsimsforum, ambron (
http://www.reflexsimsforum.com/showthread.php?t=6596&highlight=mango - link to mesh there too)
Bedding - Reflexsimsforum, Anna (
http://www.reflexsimsforum.com/showthread.php?t=14625)
Pillows - Edit: NOW I just realized where I got the pillows - ms.simbodies at simantics made some recolours of them and included the mesh. (
http://www.dlmulsowssim-antics.com/viewtopic.php?f=80&t=4461).
8. Wall Calendar Thingy - Mirake, tsr (
http://www.thesimsresource.com/artists/mirake/downloads/sims2/sets/rooms/kidsbedrooms/727867/)
Kitchen picture: Cans on left shelf - Mirake, tsr, Leyris kitchen superset (
http://www.thesimsresource.com/artists/mirake/downloads/sims2/sets/rooms/kitchens/774429/)
Books must be Mirake too I think, have to look it up in game though.