around the sims 2 has some bold toys that boys can use
Some toys I found using Sims2Wiki
Alien Baby Doll: OoGaBbErZiCkEoO at MTS2
http://www.modthesims2.com/showthread.php?t=44974 and
http://www.modthesims2.com/showthread.php?t=105106Ape: OoGaBbErZiCkEoO at MTS2 -
http://www.modthesims2.com/showthread.php?t=104969Bender: OoGaBbErZiCkEoO at MTS2 -
http://www.modthesims2.com/showthread.php?t=108139Bino Mouse Bino Maus at MTS2 -
http://www.modthesims2.com/showthread.php?t=135567Clown: natrobo at MTS2
Cow: OoGaBbErZiCkEoO at MTS2 -
http://www.modthesims2.com/showthread.php?t=107978Homer Simpson (Evil) OoGaBbErZiCkEoO at MTS2
Hudson's Bay Striped Teddies: fanseelamb at MTS2
Lady Bug: natrobo at MTS2
Llama Toy: boblishman at MTS2
Mario: OoGaBbErZiCkEoO at MTS2
Panda Bear: Purplepaws at MTS2
Pig: OoGaBbErZiCkEoO at MTS2
Skeleton: Drachenfels at MTS2
SpongeBob Squarepants: OoGaBbErZiCkEoO at MTS2
Wallace & Gromit: gromit at MTS2
Noah's Ark Playset: crowridgestudio at MTS2 -
http://www.modthesims2.com/showthread.php?t=66627Ball Sorter: SnowStorm at MTS2
Cardboard Box (toddlers play inside/gain logic): getaris at MTS2
Train Toy: 4ESF (I use this in my game and it's cute for traditional rooms)
See-and-Say: SnowStorm at MTS2
Toddler Sink: rebecah at MTS2
Child Easel: poifectly_poiple at MTS2
Ring Toss: feeEssen at MTS2
Toddler Tricycle: rebecah at MTS2
Hammer N Peg: rebecah at MTS2
Bouncy/Johnny Jumper: rebecah at MTS2
Jumping Castle: Echo at MTS2
Llama-in-the-Box: Dynamic Duo at MTS2
Sand Pile: JK11 at MTS2
Swing - Tree Swing: Targa at MTS2
Swing - Wooden Swing: Birgit43
Wading Pool Echo at MTS2
Bold Room Set with legos, fire trucks, etc:
http://www.birgit43.de/index.php?navi=sets&setid=3Radio Flyer Wagon: SimsConnection
Decorative Scooter: SimsConnection